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You’ve recently broken up or got divorced and now feel you want to get back with your ex wife or partner. There are a thousand questions running through your mind that all need answering.

How do you go about getting back with your ex?

Will she even listen to you?

Has she moved on permanently or is there still hope?

Where do you start?

The truth is that you always have a chance. The most difficult thing to do is start the process the correct way.

No matter how bad the situation you have the distinct advantage of at one time having been loved by your ex.

You need to reignite that flame, that interest and ultimately that desire that she once had for you.

One of you has seriously messed up for it to have got to this stage. Maybe it was both of you at fault – remember there are always three sides to a story – yours, hers and the truth!

If you treated her badly – why did you treat her badly? She must have done something to lose your respect. Maybe she put on weight, maybe she spent too much time with her friends or maybe she had a drinking problem.

If she was unfaithful to you – why was she unfaithful to you? You must have done something for her to find comfort in another man’s arms. What was it?

There is no point in apportioning blame. In fact if you really want to get back with your ex wife or girlfriend you should accept the blame for whatever went wrong.

I am not advocating you blurt out to her that you were at fault if she had an affair. What I am saying is you do some soul searching and try to find what was lacking in your relationship, lacking in you and the way you treated her that made her behave the way she did.

Truly take on board and understand what she thinks, feels and believes with all her heart.

Understanding what your ex feels like and how they think is key to getting them back. Do not be judgmental.

Once you have the answers to the above you can decide whether you really want to get back with your ex wife or girlfriend. Maybe you don’t after all but if what you once had is worth fighting for and you truly believe you can make it work then you owe it to yourself and to her to give it a go.

You may find you need a little help to get started and to make your reunion successful. That’s OK but just be sure that the advice you receive fits in with your ultimate goal which is to get back with your ex wife. It may not be an easy task but it can be done.

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